Sunday, May 26, 2013

What’s Your Pickle?

What’s Your Pickle?

1 Peter 4:9-10 NKJV
9 Be hospitable to one another without grumbling. 
10 As each one has received a gift, minister it to one another, as good stewards of the manifold grace of God.

   Bob Farrell is a motivational speaker who talks about customer service.  He owned a chain of Ice Cream shops that sold ice cream as well as hamburgers with a side of pickles. Early in his career, he received a letter telling how great his food was but when the customer asked for an extra pickle the waitress tried to sell it to him.  He told Mr. Farrell he would never eat in his shop again.  Mr. Farrell called his staff together and told them the story and told them that, no matter what, serve the customer!  Their battle cry became, “Give them the pickle!”  He talks to groups about how they can improve their customer service by finding what their pickle is and then, “Give them the pickle!” 
   He tells the story of a garbage truck driver who stops if he sees people having trouble starting a lawn mower and starts their mower for them.  That service is the pickle he gives away.  He tells banks to stop chaining their pens to the wall and give pens away with their name and logo printed on them.  That becomes their pickle. 
   I work in a public library, so we are all about customer service.  What else would we be there for?  So we try to make people feel welcome and help them do whatever it is they are there to do.  In the past few weeks I’ve helped three people fill out work applications and one create a resume. Three people with Kindles needed help downloading eBooks and at least five people had trouble logging onto our WiFi service.  None of these is in my job description, but these people need help and it was something I can help with so this is the pickle I give away.
   Giving away the pickle is the basis of any job, whether customer service oriented or not.  I learned from my oldest brother a long time ago to do what your boss wants done and more.  Don’t stop at just getting the job done, see what has to be done and jump in and help.  This has been great advice and some 39 years later it’s still one of the best pieces of advice I ever got. 
   I have been the victim of lousy customer service on many occasions.  There are people who only do the minimum to serve you and nothing more.  “Go the extra mile,” Jesus tells us, but these stingy workers won’t go the extra millimeter.  My favorite experiences were the young lady in McDonalds who tried to charge me 15c for an extra dipping sauce.  She was more willing to lose a $5.00 order than to give me one extra sauce.  Then there was the Subway employee who gave me one, count ‘em, one napkin.  I asked for an extra but was told how expensive paper products were.  Ever try to eat a meatball sub with one napkin?     
   But the worst customer service I have ever gotten was in churches.  We need to understand that it’s not that a new visitor is blessed to come into your wonderful church this morning; but it’s that you’re blessed to have this wonderful visitor come into your church this morning.  A church we used to attend has a wonderful usher staff, and our first Sunday there we were greeted and shown to a seat.  They made us feel welcome and gave us a visitor pack.  But when I asked where the ladies room was for my wife, they told me, “back past the nursery.”  When we walked to the other end of the lobby and entered through the doorway we found another whole building back there.  We found the rest rooms eventually.  Too bad the usher didn’t walk us back there.
   Another church we visited some years back advertised, right on the front page of the bulletin, “new visitors come and meet the Pastor after service in room 23.” So after service we found room 23, filled with kids wolfing down the cookies and punch, and no Pastor.  Several minutes later a harried usher rushed in and shook our hands and told us the Pastor had “a lunch appointment,” thanked us for coming and immediately left.  Another church had a greeting time right after the opening prayer and I stepped out into the aisle where not one person greeted us.  There were perhaps 250 and 300 people in attendance and not one greeted us. 
   If I can go into a fast food joint and get called “Sir” and have people look at me when they talk to me and get my order right and thank me for eating there, why can’t I go to church and get greeted and have someone look me in the eye when they talk to me and tell me how much they appreciate my being in service that day?  When the ushers pass the offering plate, can I get a smile?  When the Pastor says he’s glad to see so many visitors, would it be too much to expect him to greet them after service?  If your rest rooms are at the other end of the building, don’t expect the visitors to know where it is unless you pass out floor plans at the door. 
   Simple courtesy will go a long way to making a visitor feel welcome in your church.  A restaurant with bad customer service loses business.  A church with bad “customer service” loses souls. 
   When a question of what to do come to your mind: 
First, say to yourself (about the visitor,) “I like you and I’m glad you came this morning.”  This will help you with your smile.
Second, ask, “what can I do for you?” 
Third, give them a visitor packet that tells about your church.
And fourth, look at them as a soul on the brink of eternity.  You might be the only face of Jesus they will see.  Imagine getting to heaven and finding out this person is in hell because they went to church once and everyone ignored them.


Stephen Cram                                                                    May 26, 2013                     

Beware lest any man spoil you through philosophy and vain deceit, following the tradition of men according to the rudiments of the world, and not in accordance with Christ. Colossians 2:8




  


Sunday, May 19, 2013

Homo IgnoRamus


Homo IgnoRamus

Psalm:73:22
"So foolish was I, and ignorant I was as a beast before thee"

   Man sees himself as "Homo Sapiens" which means the "wise one."  Often, however, he is actually "Homo IgnoRamus."
 Paul writes of this breed of people in 1 Timothy. 
I Timothy 4:1-5 Now the Spirit speaks expressly, that in the latter times some shall depart from the faith, giving heed to seducing spirits and doctrines of demons; speaking lies in hypocrisy; having their conscience seared with a hot iron; forbidding to marry, and commanding to abstain from meats, which God has created to be received with thanksgiving of them who believe and know the truth.  For every creature of God is good, and nothing to be refused, if it be received with thanksgiving: for it is sanctified by the word of God and prayer.

   I usually don’t read a lot in the news, but this week a couple of items caught my attention.  An advocate for Gay marriage was questioning the whole concept of marriage as an archaic institution which served no real purpose in the life of modern society.  Perhaps short-term contracts would be better because the partners would be free to go their own way after it expired. 
   A Vegan in another news article said they weren’t comfortable around anyone who ate meat being afraid that the meat-eater might start eating them!  When asked if they wished everyone was a vegetarian, they were told that vegetarians were also not eating correctly and the only true lifestyle choice was to become a Vegan.
   Our country is divided like I have never seen it before and issues like these and many more are fueling the fires of controversy.  Reading the newspaper led me through one controversy after another.  So where is the church during this time of confusion and anger? 
   Some modern Bible teachers and preachers resent any attempt by the church to discuss dangers confronting the people around us.  They like to think only positive things.  Pastors are accused of hatred when warning others of the consequences of sin, so they avoid the issues and stay on “safe” subjects.  But if preachers are going to fulfill their callings and their duty towards the ones they lead, they have to warn of dangers which can destroy people’s lives. 
   A pastor of a church we attended visited a famous church well-known through its TV program.  They had printed copies of their pastor’s sermons available.  Our pastor took a few and saw sermons about clean air, conservation, helping at homeless shelters, fellowshipping with other Christians, and not one word about sin or the danger of sin.
  One of the greatest dangers both in Old Testament times and to Christians from the first century until today is ignorance.   In the New Testament we see over and over the warnings.  Paul says over and over, “I do not want you to be ignorant, brethren.” 1Corinthians 10:1, Romans 1:13, etc.  Paul was aware of the danger of being ignorant.   He wanted the Christians of his day not to be ignorant of God’s righteousness but rather to be educated in God’s ways and grow in knowledge of God and in His Grace. 
  The author of Hebrews says - Hebrews 5:12  - For though by this time you ought to be teachers, you need someone to teach you again the first principles of the oracles of God; and you have come to need milk and not solid food. 
   They not only needed to be taught, they needed to be taught the basic principles of the Gospel again!  In other words, they had to go back and learn the ABCs of the word.  Can you imagine the shock of seeing a full grown man sitting in kindergarten reciting the ABCs and getting it wrong?
   If the pew-sitters in our churches are so ignorant of the Word, what hope is there for the unsaved who fight over what to eat?  If we can’t recite our spiritual ABCs what hope to we have to make people understand how marriage is actually God’s ideal for a man and a woman? 
   Ignorance of the scriptures in the United States is almost pandemic.  National surveys show that most Americans do not know who wrote the four gospels, who delivered the Sermon on the Mount, what one must do to be saved, who the apostle Paul is and who gave the Golden Rule.  Some Americans may have heard of the Good Samaritan and the prodigal son, but they could not tell you who they were if their lives depended on it. This ignorance was not true in America two hundred years ago or a hundred years ago or even in my lifetime.  Jay Leno went out to the sidewalks and asked people about the 10 Commandments.   Jay: "How many commandments are there?" Woman: "10." Jay: "Can you name any of them?" Woman: "Freedom of speech."
   The world is brain-washing our kids and they are growing up ignorant of the Word.  We need to wake up and educate ourselves and our children and not be afraid to proclaim the truth of God’s Word.  If we don’t embrace the truth, who will?

Stephen Cram                                                                    May 19, 2013                     

Beware lest any man spoil you through philosophy and vain deceit, following the tradition of men according to the rudiments of the world, and not in accordance with Christ. Colossians 2:8


Sunday, May 12, 2013

Adam Where Are You


Adam Where Are You?

Genesis 3:8-9 NKJV
8 And they heard the sound of the Lord God walking in the garden in the cool of the day, and Adam and his wife hid themselves from the presence of the Lord God among the trees of the garden.
9 Then the Lord God called to Adam and said to him, “Where are you?”

   Adam and Eve had sinned. They had eaten of the forbidden fruit, and the immediate result of sin was, "they heard the voice of the LORD God walking in the garden in the cool of the day: and Adam and his wife hid themselves from the presence of the LORD God amongst the trees of the garden," Genesis 3:8.
   My question was always why Adam didn’t run to God and throw himself at God’s feet and cry out, "I have sinned. Oh, Lord, forgive me; I have sinned!" Why didn’t Adam confess and beg for God's grace and plead for His mercy.  But instead Adam fled from God.
   Even though Adam fled from the Lord and tried to hide, God wanted to find Adam and bring him back.  And so God walks through the garden calling to Adam, "Where are you?”  I have heard many sermons about how God was angry that Adam and Eve were trying to hide and demands they come out and face Him.  I don’t see that in this passage.  I see a loving Father Who knows His children have done a bad thing and wants them to come to Him so He can address this and restore them to Himself.  I don’t see an angry God here, I see a loving God Whose heart has been broken.  It’s not (cue angry, stern voice,) Adam!  Where are you!  It’s, (cue loving dad-like voice,) Adam, where are you?
   We often confuse the fact God hates sin and assume God hates sinners.  God loves sinners and wants all of them to come to Him.  But, truth be told, I would have been like Adam and Eve and tried to cover myself and hide, too.  I doubt I would have wanted to let God see me in my sinful condition.  I can say this because when at last I realized I was a sinner I didn’t want to pray like the pastor was urging me to.  The Holy Spirit was calling to me, Stephen, where are you,” but I was afraid to answer Him.  Any shepherd will tell you a lost sheep will never return to the fold unless the shepherd seeks them out.
   David felt this way in Psalms 119:176 where he cries out to God, "I have gone astray like a lost sheep; seek thy servant; for I do not forget thy commandments,"
Isaiah also wrote, in Isaiah 53:6, "All we like sheep have gone astray; we have turned every one to his own way,"
   Sin is a slow poison that dulls the mind and lets one slide painlessly towards death without a worry about eternity.  Sinners sleep and die much like a freezing man will sleep until he dies from the cold.  Paul speaks to this sleeping condition in Ephesians 5:14, Therefore He says: “Awake, you who sleep, Arise from the dead, And Christ will give you light.”
   God stands at the door of the sinner’s heart and knocks wanting to come in but they sleep and don’t hear the knock. 
   If you despair from seeing your loved one saved, don’t give up praying for them.  While they are alive there is still hope.  Pray often for them. 

Stephen Cram                                                                    May 12, 2013                     

Beware lest any man spoil you through philosophy and vain deceit, following the tradition of men according to the rudiments of the world, and not in accordance with Christ. Colossians 2:8


Sunday, May 5, 2013

God Loves the World, Really


God Loves the World, Really

John 3:16
For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.

   This verse is very familiar.  A polling group set up a booth on a busy city street and asked people walking by to recite a Bible verse - any Bible verse – from memory.  Of the unsaved who responded, a very large majority recited all or at least part of this verse. 
   That verse is as familiar to Christians as the sun rising in the morning.  Yet as familiar as we are with this verse we misapply it at times.  In many churches it seems to be read this way:   "For God so loved the Christian church..." The emphasis in many churches is on our own comforts and our own blessings.  Oh how wonderful it is for us; we are saved!  We have blessings and peace and joy and we are going to Heaven! 
   That's all true, but please take a look at your church bulletin and see if there are any programs for taking the gospel to the unsaved outside of the church. If there are none, then what’s the point of church? 
   "For God so loved the world..." What I first notice is that this verse begins with a statement.  This tells me the Who, the why and the where of the verse.  The Who is God Himself, the Almighty, Father God, the Creator of Heaven and earth.  The why is that God loves.  God, the Creator, loves what He created.  The where is the world He created and, most import, the people who live in this world.  And I suspect that that also includes the non-Christians in the world.
   I’m glad God loves sinners.  I was once one myself and if God didn’t love sinners I’d still be a sinner with a bleak future involving wailing and gnashing of teeth.  The Bible doesn’t say a lot about hell, but what it does say is scary.  Eternal separation from God, eternal darkness, eternal torments, an eternity without hope of redemption and knowing you turned down Jesus’ sacrifice and offer for salvation. 
   And another amazing thing about God’s love is that He loved before there was a need to love.  He loved us from the beginning of creation and has never stopped loving us.  He loved us so much He made the kind of sacrifice that goes beyond words – He gave His only begotten Son.  I cannot imagine offering a child for anyone or any reason, but God could - and did - for me.  2 Peter 3:9 says He is not willing that any should perish.  He was so firm in His resolve that He gave His Son to become sin for us so we would not perish.
   And that brings us to the second “who” in this verse.  This ‘who” is us.  This “who” is whosoever wants to believe on Jesus and not suffer the eternal separation from God.  Jesus used the word, “apollymi,” which is usually translated “perish” but a better translation is “to destroy utterly.”  Another definition I read was “should be being destroyed.”  I will confess that when a young pastor witnessed to me and showed me my sin and I asked Jesus for forgiveness; I only did it as a fire escape from hell.  All the love displayed was on God’s side, not mine.
   The reward part is at the end of this verse, eternal life.  We read a little of heaven in the Bible and find that the Bible has little to say on the subject.  You can talk about mansions and golden streets and jewels and gates and light and it all sounds nice but I have no reference to compare it to so it means little to me.  But eternity with God the Father and with Jesus sounds like the reward that really matters.
   Yes, God cares about sinners.  Yes, He is not willing that any should perish.  But how can people know about God’s love for them unless we tell them?  We are told to love our neighbors as ourselves, but if we don’t bring the Gospel to them are we really showing them love?
   Our church doors are open every Sunday and it would be so easy if the unsaved of our village came to us.  It would be easy but it is probably not going to happen.  And besides, we aren’t called to sit in our pews and wait for the unsaved, we’re commanded to go and be witnesses to them.  We need to step out of our comfort zone and go to the unsaved and be witnesses. 

Stephen Cram                                                                    May 5, 2013                     

Beware lest any man spoil you through philosophy and vain deceit, following the tradition of men according to the rudiments of the world, and not in accordance with Christ. Colossians 2:8